The Ultimate Move

I have a cousin that lives in China. He's been there, I think, for over 5 years and is the closest thing I have to brother. He loves it there as he has a soon to be wife, and says he's never moving back to the States. 3/4 years ago, he asked to move there and hang with him. I was all gung ho. I had gotten my Visa in order, found a decent plane ticket, and had even turned in my notice at my job. Well, sadly some things fell through and I wasn't able to go. Thankfully I was able to get my job back and everything was fine.

It seems every year since then he always tries to get me to come over there. I didn't before because of either A) my job, B) wanting to settle down, C) being scared or D) all of the above.

Well, a lot has happened since then and know I'm am the same position but with a different frame of mind. I emailed him to say happy birthday, and again got the same "you need to come over here man". I don't have that special someone and even though I love my job, I do not see myself doing that for the rest of my life. He said I could live with him rent free and he'd get me a job.

The more and more I think about it the better it sounds. If I did I would sell my truck and get rid of my phone as then I would have no more bills. The thought of being in a new country with new possibilities is quite the high. I still have a ton of time to think about this and it may never happen....but what if it did. Time to think a little deeper :) Love ya guys.